Abstract: women are socialised into passive-agressive ways of dealing with conflict, and the targets of such hidden aggression develop a paranoid approach to interpersonal communication in self-defense. The majority of online fandoms are women. Fandom mainly consists in taking a "paranoid" attitude to canon texts anyway (i.e. ransacking them for gaps, buttsexsubtext, hidden meanings, etc). You do the math.
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Date: 2006-07-19 06:53 am (UTC)Well, well, I understood it after a little while.
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Date: 2006-07-19 07:01 am (UTC)Actually, this opens the door to a whole new rant - about how the generation who got into old school (conventions) fandom in the early 90's were the Last Generation, and overwhelmingly the new school (online) fans don't see the need for actual human interaction of that nature. At least it appears to be that way in NZ, where the youngest generation at natcons seem to be in their early 30's (apart from children of older fans). Jess is of course an exception to this rule.
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Date: 2006-07-19 07:10 am (UTC)What I observe here in Sweden is that after a while these community members get to know each other fairly well, and inevitably someone proposes an IRL meetup, which leads to another, and eventually these guys interact FTF too, but it takes a few years before they get there. And it never takes on the same proportions, because the tiniest bit of shyness can keep you away; you don't have to meet people to interact with them.